Thursday, October 16, 2008

Je ne comprends pas...

I know it's healthier and blah blah blah to be a generally happy person... but sometimes, others just make it so difficult.  They're so wrapped up and their minds so warped that they can only find things to complain about, even when nothing, essentially, is wrong or out of place.

It's difficult being in a good mood 99.9% of the time, but it takes even more work to be miserable all the time.

Similar to smiling vs frowning: smiling uses far fewer muscles and comes much more naturally than does frowning.

I don't know why people feel they need to focus only on the negatives and spend all of their time fretting about trivial and petty nothings.  There's really nothing better you could be doing?

Misery loves company, it's true, but why waste time being  miserable?  And trying to make everyone around you feel as crumby as you do?  I just don't understand.

I have bad days, everyone has bad days.  But when someone goes out of their way to make others days bad, that's just silly.  Life is bigger than you.  If you mope, the world doesn't care.  Even the people that you bring down with you will eventually pop back up and be their normal, perky selves in no time.  And what does that do?  It makes you even more miserable because people have the nerve to be happy while you're wallowing.

Some people just need the drama so they have something to talk about with their friends I suppose.

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